When you need something or you have wants in life, who don't, right? Well, I think to have those are just a matter of asking. It's how you ask for it. Given a situation; when you want so much on shoes, don't just ask for a shoe, ask for a shoemaker or an owner of a shoe store..hehehe.
I remember when I was still single and studying in college where every girls must have something precious on them and where the pressure of rivalry was there, I happened to really own a gold ring with stone on it. And because I have 2 aunts abroad, I thought they surely can give me that without thinking how their situation were. I told them that i would not ask anything from packages they're sending but when you guys will go home I want that ring bought abroad as your present.
And then true..when they went home, they brought me a MAN who gave me many kinds of ring that I wanted. Wedding ring, college ring (yes he did pay my college ring) , ring with my birthstone on it... except suffeRING because I don't need that and thats the ring he can't give:)