As I was saying from the last post, that our misunderstanding occurs late:) It appears just a year ago:) And so rare... hehe but these past few months were like once a month..wink*. But its not big fights just misunderstanding!
My husband primarily likes me because of my being so extrovert! I say when I feel like saying, which sometimes I have a tendency to be tactless but then he likes it because he wants me to say anything what I have in mind! He is a good listener and I'm a good talker, and this makes us compatible. Thats why, when we have misunderstanding, it will be fix so easily because I really expresses my feelings right there and then! And funny because even if I'm already angry, irritated,pissed off and crying, still I adress him ' älskling ' (swedish for honey or sweetheart). After will I pour out my drama, he will just simply hug me and cry explaining he don't mean to hurt me! When he cry... the fire on me shut off! Then back to normal.
But one time, we were visiting and sleep over my aunt's house. I was unreasonable, but hello, I can't sleep without holding his hands..hehe! The situation was this;
The bed on my aunt's guest room is a doubledeck bed and single. Bec. we were 3 one has to sleep on the extra air matress bed, Laikka sleep first but on the matress so I sleep beside her hoping my husband will also sleep with us. But then when he went to bed and thought we were already sleeping he kissed us then lied down on the guest bed! I asked him to sleep with us, he said, 'no' its impossible! I was hurt or felt bad on that lines..hehe (mabaw) I became silent hoping he 'll noticed that I felt bad! But all the way he fall asleep while I remained hurt until I sobs til sleep! He might so tired that he no longer heared my sobbing! (drama!)
That was the only time I didn't spoke to him that I was hurt. On the next morning, the atmosphere just became normal automatically. I thought, it was nonsense,so no need to get it back into the topic:) I just realized it was unreasonable feelings which me myself don't understand why I felt it! Maybe hormones..heheh!
This is simply our "kiss and make up"... with hugs and kisses, and sometimes he will bring me to places which he thinks I'd like to hang-out and sometimes just happened automatically! Happy CC everyone!