Todays theme in Couples Corner is 'THE PROPOSAL'
Waaaaaa! it was me who proposed!!! Can you believe that??? hheeh. Anyway, because we were already in-love through writing and the fact that he really worked hard in order to get the money he needed just to come and met me. And the fact that I already knew he 's the one for me..(grabe lakas ng loob) heheh so I was confident proposing and that he will say 'yes'. Wahahahaha!!! The story goes like these;
It was so hard for us Filipinos to come here in Sweden even until now. The easiest way would be if you are a family (primary family) of somebody who is a Swedish citizen. And that's include, a wife, a husband, a mother, a father, brothers. So, I was thinking which this was what I was telling/proposing to him that its even hard for me and him having this relationship accross the mile while we don't see each other's yet, how much more if we meet and be apart again. So, I was giving him the idea that "how about if we get married when you come (that if you like me..given the situation) so less expenses because you don't need to come again for the wedding and my aunt and your friend there with you, then, I can come with you to Sweden because if this will be possible..I become your wife! Well, I was pratical that time! Because I believe that if you love each other, its not how long and short your relationship are, its a descision!
Well, it just took him a week (yah,long) because he also was thinking about more money for the wedding, not just for a visit or for a vacation. And so as I was expecting he bought the idea... shared it to his family and his family said; "are you crazy???" you will marry a woman you haven't met?" this is of course a natural reaction! But then, he said" yes I am crazy":) wahahahaha. (crazy in love). He was at the right age so his family supported him and I looked nice and good woman anyway in the picture..heheh, they just wish him goodluck!
He sent me the money to prepare for the wedding..he had just 4weeks vacation and so the wedding should be as early as possible. Upon Philippines rule on marrying a foriegner, he has to be 10days from arrival at Philippine airport. So while, waiting for his coming, I was busy preparing for the wedding!
Well, he has also his time proposing!the real one! it was wonderful, when 'we say, I do'..heheh! thats our next meme!
Happy CC every one!